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Date Coaching

Date with intention.
Backed by science.

Personalized coaching to help you date with clarity and confidence and meet partners who actually match the relationship you want to build.

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Sound familiar?

Common dating challenges

You're not alone. These are the things almost everyone wrestles with and the exact things we work on together.

Meeting people who actually match my values

Breaking out of patterns that keep repeating

Feeling confident on first dates              

Communicating what I want without scaring people off

Knowing when to keep going — or move on

Healing from a past relationship before starting a new one

The approach

What "science-based" really means

It means every conversation is grounded in evidence from psychology and relationship research not opinions, gimmicks, or one-size-fits-all rules.

We use what's been shown to actually move the needle, and we tailor it carefully to your story, your values, and your goals. The result is real change you can feel built on solid ground.

What we work on

Six areas we focus on together

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Clarity

Get clear on what you actually want — and what's been getting in the way.

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Boundaries

Set boundaries that protect your energy and invite the right people in.

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Confidence

Build real, grounded confidence that doesn't depend on someone else's reaction.

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Strategy

Practical, science-backed strategy for apps, first dates, and the in-between.

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Communication

Express your needs honestly without losing yourself in the process.

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Patterns

Recognize and shift the patterns that have been keeping you stuck.

How coaching works

A simple, supported path

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Clarity

Get clear on what you actually want — and what's been getting in the way.

02

Confidence

Build real, grounded confidence that doesn't depend on someone else's reaction.

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Communication

Express your needs honestly without losing yourself in the process.

04

Boundaries

Set boundaries that protect your energy and invite the right people in.

"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we'll ever do."

— BRENE BROWN

Free resource

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FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Ready to date differently?

Book a free discovery call. No pressure — just a real conversation.

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Certified science-based life, dating and relationship coaching. Helping you build the relationships you actually deserve — in the Pacific Northwest and online since 2012.

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Contact

Eugene, Oregon

541-513-9479

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